10 certain things that ain't worth it!

 That moment you decide to sing out so loud with earphones in your ear and what those around hear is this. 

Horrible! Did mama not teach him some manners? Was he trying to impress, do this dumb act worth it? What will you do if you were there? Slap him out of fury or keep wondering? And the heck! Where's the guard or security in that mart or wherever is this. Well, who knows? 

Most times, 68% of the things we do ain't worth it and whenever we keep trying over again, we are seen as stupid just as you would call that yellow bearded man 😂Let's discuss 

Below are my thoughts on The things you do that ain't worth it. 10 revealing issues! 

Explaining yourself to impress or to be understood : "They don't get it, I'll explain for they will change their mind when I talk." you say but it doesn't work this way. Not at all, if you keep rattling, you'll be considered as one who just gibber with no point. Some people are avoided for they are considered as loquacious only because they tend to express themselves by explaining much. Say yes or no, nod if possible, express your view shorty and vehemently. Just this is enough! 

Holding on to those who has made it clear that they don't care about you is one mistake humans make.

 Irene settled down wearingly on the sofa with tears in her eyes and her hair covering half of her face. "Kevin will like me someday, I'll keep talking to him though he answers coldly. " she mumbled, recoiling with fear in anticipation of the insults her friend, Chioma will say. 

Cut off that person, make your worth known, stop stressing, make efforts but don't be known as a fool for trying to hard. The one who will love and care will someday. It's not their fault too nor a crime. We can't force things! 

Working with friends because they are friends - You feel a friend is someone you really can work on or keep secret with for he / she is a friend and you can trust him/her. Funny. In doubt? Read 48 laws of power yet? Check out Robert Greene's word. Work with someone whom you can share ideas with, collaborate with to agree on a particular idea. Even your enemy, crazy! 

Materialism and living large and luxuriously in pretence with a low income - Cut your coat according to your cloth they say but some have extremely become bankrupt and debtors for they desire to impress. They'll like to show off in a glamorous attire, use the new phone in town or be behind the wheel of the best car in vogue. But it is what it is, materialism and pretence can't last for long, the truth will always prevail.

Involvement in quarrel between couples - ever tried to settle a scuffle between twins, kin or couples and you end up being the one battered and scoffed. Relatives don't fight for long, most times that bond stands. Sometimes, you have to sit and watch. You can't just erupt from no where and claim to be a mediator! And even when you do, do not support one and leave the other. Judge fairly! 

Relying on alcohol and drugs to suppress depression - 70% of men do this and it amazes me that some women are drunkards too. But depression needs therapy, care, being loved not relying on hard drugs and alcohol which will sap one's energy or derail one's mental health. 

Neglect of potential - It just doesn't worth it when you go after a certain career or job just because others are succeeding in it. Look inside of you, you've potentials and skills also. Those people might be succeeding for they didn't hide their potentials! 

Reclining too much on people - Be careful of how you depend on others for you might end up being dissapointed. It's no fallacy! You can't recline on others for strength or any other thing every time. We all have our worries and hurdles! 

Ranting on media and being a media addict - No one wants to listen to your rant, sometimes it depicts you as unwise. Ever think of this? It's one thing to express your opinions but sometimes you've to speak wise. You need to. It's really crazy whenever I type and end up deleting my "about to be shared " post. But to me, it's really good to think twice before an act is done. Being a media addict tend to divert your attention and you become blind to some necessary issues too. 

Tackling others or engaging in a fight because of shared views - You love to argue? May argument not kill you! May you not end up with a splittered brain or broken leg all because of an argument. An argument doesn't worth you becoming indisposed! We all own our views and opinions, let others reveal theirs. Don't be a barrier! 

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