Common mistakes to be avoided in life

 Happy new month readers!

Your supports so far has been my reason to smile! 

It's a new month. The first month in the  "ember" group!

In life, some mistakes have become a behavioural practice! We tend to make mistakes that mar and bring us down. 

We could have repeated such mistakes in the past but the four months left in 2020 can prove fruitful and achieving if we recline and muse on these with rapt actions! 

The first on my list is " doing the wrong things "

The wrong things? Ponder on this, let your mind roam; when you sit and think of the things you once did and engage in. 60% of the things we do are wrong!. This applies to hobbies, activities and the moments we decide to have fun. The crux of this depicts - when you engage in things that adds no value of which you gain nothing from the practice, back off! 

Expectant towards the things you don't toil for - A proverb states " The things you don't toil for will not last long ". I vehemently reckon with this, expecting results for things you are non-challant towards or things you didn't thrive to achieve is like fetching water in a basket and expecting to take home, the water to complete your domestic chores! 

Being stuck on failures - Life is a battlefield, sometimes we end up being the one who lose when the war takes place and sometimes we are the overcomer. Failure is part of life, and you should bare this in mind; I get it, you messed up but success awaits you if only you brace up yourself! Sulking can solve nothing! 

Narrowly defining yourself - you are more than you think you are. You are no failure, you are not an ant but a giant! Challenges, circumstances, failure do not define you. This mistake keeps you stagnant if you keep holding on to it. 

Being with the wrong people - Being with those whose words draws you back and bring down your morale and doing spirit will hurt you more than you think it will! If they make you worse whenever you are with them, if their actions towards you changes whenever you get to achieve something; take your leave! 

Pointing your fingers at others after making a decision - Blaming others for your misfortune because you decide to do what they told you to do is lame! You did it, you made a choice - they didn't. They asked you to but you did. Accept the blames, you are weak not them, work on your weakness and do what you think is right. 

Stagnation as a result of not striving - In relationships, friendship, marriage, love, work and all other things you do - you've got to strive and make efforts. There's no in folding your arms and expecting results. Everything requires consistent effort; if you fail to keep others happy and you fail to thrive , do not be surprised when you see them leave or when your work crumble! 

Letting fear take charge - The things you dare not to do becomes the things you regret! You don't have to fear and be too scared, Take up some courage and go for it for that choice you make can change everything and produce positive results! 

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